Episode #87 Feeling Valued

April 20, 2021

If you wish others would value you more, then you’re not alone. For most of my coaching clients, “Feeling more valued”” is either top of their wishlist, or a very close second. But what does it take to feel valued, and whose responsibility is it?

In this episode of the podcast I talk about the importance of valuing yourself, before you can expect others to value you. I talk about the 5 (and a half!) common mistakes people make when it comes to feeling valued, and then I share how to use the 80:20 rule to create a healthy balance of external validation and a sense of value that is internally generated.

At the end you’ll discover the only tool you need to help you access that value. Can you guess what it is?

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